Let me tell you about my friend, Dontez. We met through the Rock Chalk Roundball Classic back in 2019, and while I connect with every kiddo in the Roundball family, some relationships go deeper. From our first moment together, I could feel the magic he carried. Dontez’s love for dragons, crystals, and portals illuminated his spirit, and he never let his illness define him—his compassion, grace, and joy were always present.

Recently, I had the honor of spending time with him, feeling the weight of what might be our last visit. We watched YouTube and talked about video games, sharing laughter and connection. I asked him, “If you were a character, who would you be?” He responded with Escanor, a mystical character known for giving everything for others—a perfect reflection of Dontez’s selfless spirit.

It has been a gift to not only know Dontez but also to connect with his incredible mom, a fierce advocate and warrior for her son. Today, as we sat together reminiscing about our favorite moments with him, she shared a beautiful memory. After Dontez passed, a dragonfly landed on her, even amidst the chaotic winds. She knew it was him, a sign of his enduring spirit.

As I drove home, I could feel his presence surrounding me. I heard him say, “Of course it was me. I’m a dragon, and the gentlest of all dragons is the dragonfly.” It all made sense; Dontez’s essence and gentle spirit continue to be with us, offering comfort and love.

Even through the grief, I find so much gratitude. Thank you, Dontez, for sharing your magic and joy with me. You’ve left an indelible mark on my heart. For anyone feeling called to support his family during this time, I’ve shared the GoFundMe link below. Thank you to all who have shown him love; you are part of his legacy, too. May we continue to honor him and work together to make the world a better place for all our children.

Thank you Micah Brown!

Most people are getting to know Micah as the genius producer, storyteller, and king of Netflix, but I’d love to share some of our favorite things about him that maybe not everyone sees. Beyond his incredible talent, Micah is an absolutely amazing musician & dad. He doesn’t just bring his boys into his world—he steps into theirs, embracing their imagination and playfulness. That childlike wonder is one of life’s greatest gifts, and Micah embodies it so beautifully.

I’m grateful to call him a friend, and even more grateful to my husband @brando_mac for introducing me to such a remarkable human. Fun fact: I liked Micah from the day he caught my husband’s ball during the Orange Bowl way back when! So thank you, Micah, for your generous support of @bbbskc , for being an advocate, a protector of children, and an all-around incredible creative.

Also, happiest of birthdays to you, Micah! May this next trip around the sun bring ease, joy, new adventures, and all the beautiful things life has to offer. Speaking for the McAndersons—we love you, we got you, and we’re beyond thankful to have you in our lives.

Grateful for you @micahbrownfilm ❤️💙

Tattooing has deep, ancient roots, especially in pre-colonial Mesoamerica and Mexico. In our cultures, tattoos were never just about physical adornment—they are sacred acts, a way to connect with Spirit and our ancestors. When done in ceremony, the ink doesn’t just mark the skin, it imprints on the soul. It’s a way for our ancestors to recognize us, a symbol of who we are and what we stand for, visible to both the physical and spiritual worlds.

Tattoo artists in these times, often considered Spiritual Leaders, played an incredibly important role in our communities. Their work was much more than physical art—it was a sacred act of bridging the physical and spiritual realms. Tattoos could represent one’s connection to a deity, mark life transitions, or display social status and warrior achievements. These artists carried the responsibility of channeling Divine Energy and ensuring that the tattoo offered spiritual protection, healing, and connection to the wearer’s ancestors. To be tattooed by one of these artists was to be recognized by the divine and your lineage, an act done with great reverence.

I knew I had to get this tattoo for many, many years, and it’s so beautiful how the Creator brought my now Spirit Brother, Thomas, into my life and how our paths have crossed. I’m beyond grateful. When you’re patient and allow Spirit to move, the results are always beyond what you can imagine. I am in awe of what has been created for me, how Loved I am, and how magical this journey is.

Yesterday was a new beginning for both of us as we step into our responsibility as Healers and Leaders in our community. Our time together was timeless and sacred. So much was created, not just in ink, but in energy and Spirit. The alignment, the trust, the patience—it all led to this powerful moment. Thank you, Thomas, for seeing me, for seeing my Spirit, and for being a part of my Spirit team now. I am in awe of what we created together and look forward to everything yet to unfold. Mahalo, Brother. Gracias. I Love you. Aho. Mitakuye Oyasin.